I Never Touched the $3,000 Card My Ex Gave Me After 37 Years of Marriage, Until One Trip to the Bank Changed Everything

Richard and I were married in June of 1982 in a church that no longer exists, in a neighborhood that no longer looks like itself, in front of seventy-three people who were witness to a beginning they could not have known would end the way it did.

I was twenty-eight years old.

He was thirty.

We were the kind of young that makes you believe the future is something you can simply decide to have.