At the Rehearsal Dinner, the Groom’s Grandfather Held My Late Husband’s Photo — “I’ve Looked for This Man for 46 Years”
At 7:52 PM on a Friday, in a steakhouse party room strung with fairy lights, an eighty-year-old man stood up at my granddaughter’s rehearsal dinner, held a photograph of my dead husband over his head, and stopped forty people mid-dessert — and I sat there with my heart slamming, because for eleven years I’d been…