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The Necklace
\nI should have known something was wrong the moment I saw the velvet box.<\/p>\n
It was dark blue, the color of a bruise, and Susan was carrying it in both hands like it was something precious. She walked into the back room of Marco\u2019s with her chin up and her lipstick fresh, smiling at everyone, and when she got to me, she held it out.<\/p>\n
\u201cHappy birthday, Emily,\u201d she said. \u201cI had this made especially for you.\u201d<\/p>\n
Thirty-five years old. A room full of people I loved. Candles on the table, a bottle of red wine already half gone, my husband\u2019s hand resting warm on my back.<\/p>\n
And for one stupid, hopeful second, I thought my mother-in-law was finally trying to make peace.<\/p>\n
Everyone leaned closer.<\/p>\n
I remember my fingers on the little gold clasp. I remember Thomas shifting in his chair. I remember my best friend Tara whispering, \u201cOoh, jewelry,\u201d and my father-in-law, Matthew, reaching for the bread basket without looking up.<\/p>\n
I remember thinking, Maybe this is her way of saying sorry.<\/p>\n
Then I opened the lid.<\/p>\n
But I need to go back first. Because you can\u2019t understand what happened in that room, what Matthew did, or why Susan screamed the way she did, unless you know what the four years before it looked like.<\/p>\n
Thomas and I got married when I was thirty. We waited one year, because we wanted to be \u201cjust us\u201d for a little while. We took a trip to Portugal. We painted our tiny house a color called Sea Glass that turned out to look like a hospital hallway, and we laughed about it for months.<\/p>\n
Ezoic
\nThen we started trying.<\/p>\n
The first six months, it was fun. Honestly. We\u2019d joke about it. Thomas would text me at work: Ovulation tonight? Should I buy candles? And I\u2019d text back: Buy pizza. Candles are for amateurs.<\/p>\n
After a year, it wasn\u2019t funny anymore.<\/p>\n
After two, there were tests. Blood work. An ultrasound where a woman with cold hands pressed a wand against my stomach and didn\u2019t say anything for a very long time. Then a doctor\u2019s office with a fake ficus in the corner and a word I had to look up when I got home.<\/p>\n
Then there were the injections.<\/p>\n
If you\u2019ve never done IVF, I don\u2019t know how to explain it except like this: every night for weeks, Thomas stood in our bathroom with a needle, and I sat on the edge of the tub with my shirt pulled up, and he\u2019d say, \u201cReady?\u201d and I\u2019d say, \u201cNo,\u201d and he\u2019d do it anyway, because we had to.<\/p>\n
He never got used to it. His hands shook every single time.<\/p>\n
\u201cI hate hurting you,\u201d he said once, capping the needle.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou\u2019re not hurting me,\u201d I said. \u201cThe universe is hurting me. You\u2019re just the delivery guy.\u201d<\/p>\n
He laughed. Then he sat down on the bathroom floor and put his head against my knee and didn\u2019t say anything for a long time.<\/p>\n
The first round failed. We got the phone call on a Tuesday while I was in the grocery store, standing in front of the cereal. The nurse was very kind. I thanked her. I hung up. I bought the cereal. I drove home. I didn\u2019t cry until I was putting the groceries away and saw that I\u2019d bought the wrong kind.<\/p>\n
The second round, we got further. Two weeks further. Long enough to see two pink lines. Long enough for Thomas to buy a tiny knit hat at a craft fair and hide it in his sock drawer, where I found it later.<\/p>\n
Long enough to hope.<\/p>\n
Then I started bleeding at work, in the bathroom on the fourth floor, and a woman from accounting found me sitting on the floor of the handicapped stall and called Thomas for me because I couldn\u2019t hold my phone steady enough to dial.<\/p>\n
The specialist\u2019s name was Dr. Okafor. She had gray braids pulled back into a bun, and she didn\u2019t do the thing some doctors do where they look at the chart instead of your face.<\/p>\n
She looked right at me.<\/p>\n
\u201cEmily,\u201d she said. \u201cI want to be honest with you, because I think you\u2019d rather have honesty than hope that isn\u2019t real.\u201d<\/p>\n
Thomas took my hand under the desk.<\/p>\n
She explained it slowly. The scarring. The shape of things inside me that I\u2019d never known were the wrong shape. Words like structural and high-risk and not viable. She drew a little diagram on a notepad. I stared at the diagram. It looked like a bad drawing of a pear.<\/p>\n
\u201cSo what you\u2019re saying,\u201d Thomas said, \u201cis that it\u2019s hard.\u201d<\/p>\n
Dr. Okafor looked at him. Then she looked back at me.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat I\u2019m saying is that carrying a pregnancy to term is almost impossible for you. Not completely. I never say completely. But almost.\u201d<\/p>\n
Almost.<\/p>\n
I remember nodding. I remember saying, \u201cOkay.\u201d I remember saying, \u201cThank you for being straight with us.\u201d I remember shaking her hand at the end, like we\u2019d just finished a job interview.<\/p>\n
In the car, Thomas didn\u2019t start the engine. We sat in the parking garage with the concrete walls all around us and the smell of oil and old rain.<\/p>\n
\u201cEm,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019m fine.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYou\u2019re not fine.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019m fine, Thomas. Please just drive.\u201d<\/p>\n
He didn\u2019t drive. He reached over and pulled me against him, awkward over the gearshift, and I pressed my face into his jacket, and I made a sound I didn\u2019t know I could make. Something between a scream and a cough. He held on and didn\u2019t say anything, because there was nothing to say.<\/p>\n
After a while, I sat up and wiped my face with my sleeve.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat do we tell people?\u201d I asked.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhatever you want.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYour mom\u2019s going to have a field day.\u201d<\/p>\n
He didn\u2019t laugh. He knew I wasn\u2019t really joking.<\/p>\n
I stopped going to baby showers after that.<\/p>\n
Not all at once. I tried at first. I went to my cousin Nora\u2019s, and I bought a very expensive stroller off the registry because I thought if I spent enough money it would prove I was okay. I sat in a folding chair in her backyard while women passed around onesies with ducks on them and said, \u201cOh my God, it\u2019s so tiny,\u201d and I smiled until my face hurt.<\/p>\n
Then someone started a game where you guessed how big the mother\u2019s belly was with a piece of string, and I got up and went to the bathroom and sat on the closed toilet lid and counted the tiles on the floor. Eighty-four. I counted them three times.<\/p>\n
After that, I sent gifts instead.<\/p>\n
Thomas understood. He never once asked why I was \u201cskipping\u201d things. He\u2019d just quietly handle it. \u201cEmily\u2019s got a work thing,\u201d he\u2019d tell people. Or, \u201cShe\u2019s not feeling great.\u201d He covered for me like it was nothing.<\/p>\n
His mother, Susan, did not understand.<\/p>\n
Or maybe she did. Maybe she understood perfectly. That\u2019s the part I still think about.<\/p>\n
Susan knew everything. We told her and Matthew the whole story, right after the appointment with Dr. Okafor, because Thomas said, \u201cThey\u2019re family. They should hear it from us, not from somebody else.\u201d<\/p>\n
We sat in their living room. Matthew in his brown recliner. Susan on the couch with her legs crossed, her reading glasses pushed up on her head.<\/p>\n
Thomas did the talking. I just held a glass of water and looked at the carpet.<\/p>\n
When he finished, Matthew said, \u201cOh, kiddo. I\u2019m so sorry.\u201d He got up and hugged me, which he\u2019d never done before. He smelled like sawdust and aftershave. He was a big, quiet man who\u2019d worked as a carpenter for forty years and had hands like baseball mitts.<\/p>\n
Susan didn\u2019t get up.<\/p>\n
\u201cWell,\u201d she said. \u201cHave you thought about adoption?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cMom,\u201d Thomas said.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat? It\u2019s a reasonable question.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cWe just found out today.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019m only saying there are options.\u201d She took a sip of her tea. \u201cSome women just aren\u2019t built for it. It\u2019s nobody\u2019s fault.\u201d<\/p>\n
Some women just aren\u2019t built for it.<\/p>\n
I set my water glass down very carefully on the coaster, so it wouldn\u2019t make a sound.<\/p>\n
Matthew cleared his throat. \u201cSusan.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat? I\u2019m being supportive.\u201d<\/p>\n
That was the first one. After that, they never really stopped.<\/p>\n
Thomas\u2019s younger sister, Anna, announced her pregnancy the following spring.<\/p>\n
She did it at Easter dinner. She stood up and clinked her glass with a fork and held up a little ultrasound picture, and the whole table erupted. Susan jumped up and screamed and hugged her. Matthew wiped his eyes. Anna\u2019s husband, Greg, grinned like he\u2019d personally invented babies.<\/p>\n
I clapped. I smiled. I said, \u201cAnna, that\u2019s amazing.\u201d And I meant it. That\u2019s the thing people don\u2019t understand about infertility. You can be happy for someone and still feel like you\u2019ve been punched.<\/p>\n
Anna looked at me across the table. Her face got careful. \u201cEm, I wasn\u2019t sure how to tell you. I didn\u2019t want to\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cDon\u2019t be silly,\u201d I said. \u201cI\u2019m so happy for you.\u201d<\/p>\n
Then Susan sat back down, still flushed and glowing, and looked right at me.<\/p>\n
\u201cSome women are just luckier than others,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n
It got quiet.<\/p>\n
Thomas put his fork down. \u201cMom. Stop.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat did I say?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYou know exactly what you said.\u201d<\/p>\n
Susan rolled her eyes and reached for the gravy. \u201cRelax. She knows I don\u2019t mean anything by it. Right, Emily?\u201d<\/p>\n
Everyone looked at me.<\/p>\n
I could have said something. I could have said, No, Susan, I don\u2019t know that. I could have gotten up and left. Instead, I did what I always did. I smiled and said, \u201cOf course.\u201d<\/p>\n
Under the table, Thomas\u2019s knee was pressed against mine so hard it hurt.<\/p>\n
In the car on the way home, he was furious.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhy do you do that?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cDo what?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cSay it\u2019s fine. Let her off the hook.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cBecause it\u2019s Easter, Thomas. Because your sister just announced she\u2019s having a baby, and I didn\u2019t want to be the woman who ruined it by crying over the ham.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYou wouldn\u2019t have ruined it. She ruined it.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cIt doesn\u2019t matter.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cIt matters to me.\u201d<\/p>\n
I looked out the window. \u201cWhat am I supposed to do? She\u2019s your mother.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI know she\u2019s my mother,\u201d he said quietly. \u201cThat\u2019s why it makes me sick.\u201d<\/p>\n
It went on like that for almost two years.<\/p>\n
At Anna\u2019s baby shower, which I did go to, because Anna begged me, Susan handed me a stack of plates and said, \u201cHere, you can be on serving duty. You\u2019ll need something to keep you busy.\u201d<\/p>\n
When Anna\u2019s son Leo was born, Susan held him up at the hospital and said to the room, \u201cFinally, a grandchild in this family,\u201d and then glanced at me and added, \u201cWell. The first one. We\u2019ll see if there are others.\u201d<\/p>\n
At a Fourth of July barbecue, when a neighbor asked me if Thomas and I had kids, Susan answered for me before I could open my mouth. \u201cOh, no. They have a dog.\u201d She said dog the way you\u2019d say parking ticket.<\/p>\n
And every single time, Thomas told her to stop.<\/p>\n
And every single time, Susan shrugged. \u201cRelax. She knows I don\u2019t mean anything by it.\u201d<\/p>\n
And every single time, Matthew said the same thing.<\/p>\n
\u201cThat\u2019s just how she is.\u201d<\/p>\n
He\u2019d say it to Thomas, quietly, in the kitchen. He\u2019d say it to me once, when he walked me out to the car after the Fourth of July thing and saw my face.<\/p>\n
\u201cDon\u2019t take it to heart, kiddo,\u201d he said, standing by the driver\u2019s door with his hands in his pockets. \u201cThat\u2019s just how she is. She\u2019s got a sharp tongue. She\u2019s always had one.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cDoes she have a sharp tongue with Anna?\u201d I asked.<\/p>\n
He opened his mouth. Then he closed it.<\/p>\n
\u201cDoes she say things like that to anybody else, Matthew? Or just me?\u201d<\/p>\n
He looked down at his shoes. Big, scuffed work boots.<\/p>\n
\u201cDrive safe,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n
The worst one was Christmas.<\/p>\n
Susan and Matthew always hosted. The whole house smelled like cinnamon and pine needles, and there was a train set running around the base of the tree that Matthew had built himself when Thomas was a boy.<\/p>\n
That year, Anna was nursing Leo on the couch. Greg was drinking eggnog with too much rum in it. Thomas was on the floor with his old train set, fixing a piece of track that had come loose. And I was in the kitchen, helping Susan with the dishes, because I was always helping Susan with the dishes. It was easier than sitting with everyone else.<\/p>\n
Susan poured two glasses of wine and handed me one.<\/p>\n
\u201cHere,\u201d she said, and laughed. \u201cAt least you never have to give this up for nine months.\u201d<\/p>\n
I stood there holding the glass.<\/p>\n
She was smiling. It wasn\u2019t even a mean smile. That was the strange part. It was a light smile, easy, like she\u2019d just told a funny little joke about the weather.<\/p>\n
I put the wine glass down on the counter. I walked out of the kitchen, got my coat from the hall closet, and went out to the car. It was snowing. I sat in the passenger seat with the door closed and my breath fogging up the windows.<\/p>\n
Ten minutes later, Thomas came out. He didn\u2019t have his coat on. There was snow in his hair.<\/p>\n
He got in the driver\u2019s seat. He didn\u2019t ask what happened. He\u2019d heard it. Anna had heard it. The whole house had heard it, because Susan never said anything quietly.<\/p>\n
\u201cI told her,\u201d he said. His voice was shaking. \u201cI told her if she ever says anything like that to you again, we\u2019re done coming here.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat did she say?\u201d<\/p>\n
He let out a breath that was almost a laugh. \u201cShe said, \u2018Relax. She knows I don\u2019t mean anything by it.’\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cAnd your dad?\u201d<\/p>\n
Thomas looked at the house. Through the big front window, we could see the Christmas tree, the lights blinking. Someone was moving around inside. Matthew, maybe.<\/p>\n
\u201cHe said, \u2018That\u2019s just how she is.’\u201d<\/p>\n
We drove home in silence. When we got there, Thomas made me tea and sat with me on the couch until two in the morning. Neither of us turned on the TV. We just sat there, listening to the snow hit the windows.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhy does she hate me?\u201d I asked, finally.<\/p>\n
\u201cShe doesn\u2019t hate you.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cThomas.\u201d<\/p>\n
He was quiet for a long time.<\/p>\n
\u201cI don\u2019t know,\u201d he said. \u201cI really don\u2019t know. She wasn\u2019t always like this. I mean, she was always sharp. But not\u2026 not like this. Not cruel.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cIt\u2019s only about the baby thing,\u201d I said. \u201cHave you noticed that? She\u2019s fine about everything else. My job, my clothes, my cooking. She criticizes all of it, but normally. Like a regular mother-in-law. It\u2019s only the baby thing where she turns into somebody else.\u201d<\/p>\n
He didn\u2019t answer. But I could tell he\u2019d noticed too.<\/p>\n
So that\u2019s where we were when my thirty-fifth birthday came around.<\/p>\n
I didn\u2019t want a party. Thomas talked me into dinner. \u201cJust a small thing,\u201d he said. \u201cPeople who love you. Good food. You deserve one night that\u2019s about you.\u201d<\/p>\n
He booked the back room at Marco\u2019s, the little Italian place where we\u2019d had our first date. He invited Tara and her husband Dev. My mom, who drove up from two hours away. Anna and Greg, who got a babysitter for Leo. And, because he felt like he had to, his parents.<\/p>\n
\u201cWe could not invite them,\u201d I said, when he told me.<\/p>\n
\u201cI thought about it.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cAnd?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cAnd I thought, if we don\u2019t invite them, Mom wins. She gets to make it about her. She gets to tell everybody we cut her out. I don\u2019t want to give her that.\u201d He rubbed his face. \u201cBesides. Dad asked. He called me himself. He said, \u2018I want to be there for Emily\u2019s birthday.\u2019 He\u2019s never asked for anything like that.\u201d<\/p>\n
So I said yes.<\/p>\n
And for the first hour, it was perfect.<\/p>\n
My mom told embarrassing stories about me as a kid. Tara told the story about the time we got lost in Chicago and ended up at a stranger\u2019s bachelorette party. Dev did an impression of our old boss that made Anna laugh so hard she snorted wine up her nose. Thomas kept his arm around the back of my chair the whole time, his thumb moving in small circles on my shoulder.<\/p>\n
Susan was quiet. Almost pleasant. She complimented my dress. She asked my mom about her garden. Matthew caught my eye across the table once and gave me a small nod, like he was glad to be there.<\/p>\n
When the waiter brought out the tiramisu with a single candle on top, everyone sang. Loud and off-key, especially Dev. I blew out the candle, and they all clapped, and for one moment, I felt so happy I could have cried.<\/p>\n
That was when Susan reached into her big leather purse and pulled out the velvet box.<\/p>\n
\u201cI have one more gift,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n
\u201cI had this made especially for you,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n
Everyone leaned closer.<\/p>\n
My mom said, \u201cOh, how thoughtful, Susan.\u201d Tara whispered, \u201cOoh, jewelry.\u201d Anna tilted her head, curious. Even Matthew looked up from his plate.<\/p>\n
I looked at Thomas. He had a strange look on his face. Careful. Watchful. Like a man watching a dog he doesn\u2019t trust.<\/p>\n
I opened the lid.<\/p>\n
Inside was a necklace.<\/p>\n
It was strung on thin gold chain. And all along it, one after another, were tiny plastic charms. Pink baby bottles. Blue baby bottles. Little pacifiers in pink and blue and yellow, each one no bigger than a fingernail. The kind of cheap plastic things you\u2019d find in a party-favor bag at a baby shower. Someone had put real work into it. Every charm was attached with a tiny gold ring. They were evenly spaced. It was neat and careful and deliberate.<\/p>\n
For a second, I couldn\u2019t breathe.<\/p>\n
It was like the air had been sucked out of the room. Like my lungs had forgotten how to work. I just sat there, holding the open box, staring down at those little bottles.<\/p>\n
Then Susan laughed.<\/p>\n
\u201cCome on! It\u2019s cute.\u201d<\/p>\n
Nobody else made a sound.<\/p>\n
Not Tara. Not my mom. Not Anna. Not Dev, who always had something to say. The whole room was completely silent. I could hear the kitchen through the swinging door. Someone dropping a pan. A radio playing faintly. The hum of the refrigerators.<\/p>\n
Susan reached across the table. She lifted one of the tiny bottles between two fingers, holding it up so everyone could see. It swung a little on the chain.<\/p>\n
\u201cSince you\u2019ll never need the real ones,\u201d she said, \u201cI thought you should at least get to wear them.\u201d<\/p>\n
Thomas\u2019s chair scraped against the floor.<\/p>\n
He was on his feet so fast his napkin fell off his lap. \u201cMom. What the hell is wrong with you?\u201d<\/p>\n
My eyes burned. My throat burned. Everything burned.<\/p>\n
But I refused to cry in front of her. I would not give her that. Not tonight. Not on my birthday. I kept my eyes open and fixed on a spot on the tablecloth where someone had spilled a drop of red sauce, and I held on to it like it was the edge of a cliff.<\/p>\n
My mom put her hand on my arm. I could feel her fingers shaking.<\/p>\n
Susan rolled her eyes. She let go of the little bottle, and it dropped back down against the velvet.<\/p>\n
\u201cIt\u2019s a joke,\u201d she said. \u201cShe\u2019s always so sensitive about this. Honestly, Thomas, sit down. You\u2019re making a scene.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019m making a scene?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cEveryone\u2019s so serious all the time. It\u2019s exhausting. I thought it would lighten things up.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cLighten things up?\u201d Thomas\u2019s voice was getting louder. \u201cShe had two failed rounds of IVF. She had a miscarriage. She sat in a doctor\u2019s office and got told she\u2019ll probably never carry a baby. And you had jewelry made about it?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cDon\u2019t talk to me like that.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cSomebody has to talk to you like that! Somebody should have done it years ago!\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cThomas,\u201d Anna said softly. \u201cSit down. Please.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cNo. I\u2019m done sitting down. I\u2019ve been sitting down for four years while she\u2014\u201d<\/p>\n
And that was when my father-in-law quietly put down his fork.<\/p>\n
It wasn\u2019t loud. It was just a small click of metal against the plate. But somehow, in that room, it was louder than anything Thomas had said.<\/p>\n
Everyone turned to look at him.<\/p>\n
For years, Matthew had been the one saying, \u201cThat\u2019s just how she is.\u201d He\u2019d said it at Easter. At the Fourth of July. At Christmas, in the kitchen, while I sat alone in the car in the snow. He\u2019d said it so many times that I\u2019d stopped expecting anything else from him. He was a nice man. A gentle man. And he was a man who had never once in thirty-eight years of marriage stood up to his wife in public.<\/p>\n
Not this time.<\/p>\n
He wiped his mouth with his napkin and folded it and set it beside his plate. Then he stood up. Slowly. He was sixty-four years old, and his knees were bad, and it took him a moment.<\/p>\n
He walked around the table to where I was sitting. He didn\u2019t look at me. He looked at the box in my hands.<\/p>\n
He picked up the necklace.<\/p>\n
He held it up in front of his face. The little bottles and pacifiers dangled from his big, rough carpenter\u2019s fingers. They looked ridiculous there. They looked like something a child would make.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou had this made?\u201d he asked.<\/p>\n
His voice was calm. Very calm.<\/p>\n
Susan smiled. She sat up a little straighter. I could see it on her face. She thought he was on her side. She thought he was about to say, See, it\u2019s just a joke, everyone calm down.<\/p>\n
\u201cOf course,\u201d she said. \u201cTook me forever to find those little bottles. I had to order them online. The first batch was the wrong size.\u201d<\/p>\n
Matthew stared at her.<\/p>\n
He turned the necklace slowly in his hand. He looked at every single charm, one by one, like he was counting them.<\/p>\n
Then he said, \u201cGood. So you had plenty of time to think about what you were doing.\u201d<\/p>\n
Susan\u2019s smile vanished.<\/p>\n
\u201cMatthew\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYou had to find a jeweler,\u201d he said. \u201cYou had to explain to someone what you wanted. You had to pick the colors. Wait for the shipping. Send back the wrong ones. Pick up the finished necklace. Buy the box. Wrap it. Carry it in here tonight in your purse. Sit through the whole dinner with it. Sit through the singing.\u201d His voice didn\u2019t rise at all. \u201cThat\u2019s weeks, Susan. Weeks you had to think about it. And you did it anyway.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cIt\u2019s a joke, Matthew.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cNo,\u201d he said. \u201cIt isn\u2019t.\u201d<\/p>\n
He reached for the velvet box. I let him take it. I don\u2019t think I could have held on to it if I\u2019d tried.<\/p>\n
Thomas started to speak. \u201cDad\u2014\u201d<\/p>\n
Matthew raised one hand without looking at him.<\/p>\n
\u201cNo, son,\u201d he said. \u201cLet me handle this.\u201d<\/p>\n
He laid the necklace back into the box, carefully, the way you\u2019d put something back that you\u2019d borrowed. He smoothed it flat against the velvet with his fingertip.<\/p>\n
Then Matthew did something none of us expected.<\/p>\n
He took hold of his wedding ring.<\/p>\n
It was a plain gold band, thick and worn and scratched from forty years of hammers and saws and sandpaper. I don\u2019t think I\u2019d ever seen him without it. He twisted it. It didn\u2019t come off at first. It was tight. His knuckles were swollen from years of work. He twisted it harder, and his face tightened with the effort, and then it slid over the knuckle and came free.<\/p>\n
He dropped the ring into the velvet box, right on top of the baby bottles.<\/p>\n
He closed the lid.<\/p>\n
And he slid the box across the table until it stopped in front of Susan\u2019s plate.<\/p>\n
Susan screamed.<\/p>\n
It wasn\u2019t a word. It was just a sound. High and sharp and terrible. She shot up from her chair so fast that her wine glass tipped over and spilled across the tablecloth, red soaking into white. She stared at the box like it was a snake.<\/p>\n
Everyone in the room gasped.<\/p>\n
My mom\u2019s hand went to her mouth. Anna said, \u201cDad!\u201d Greg half stood up. Tara grabbed Dev\u2019s arm.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat are you doing?\u201d Susan\u2019s voice was shaking. \u201cMatthew, what are you doing? Put it back on. Put it back on right now.\u201d<\/p>\n
Matthew didn\u2019t move.<\/p>\n
\u201cEveryone is looking,\u201d she hissed. \u201cPut it back on.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cNow you care who\u2019s looking,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n
For a long moment, nobody said anything.<\/p>\n
The red wine dripped off the edge of the table onto the floor. Plip. Plip. Plip.<\/p>\n
Susan\u2019s face was white. Her lips were pressed so tight they\u2019d almost disappeared. She looked at Anna, and Anna looked away. She looked at Thomas, and Thomas stared back at her with no expression at all. She looked at me.<\/p>\n
I don\u2019t know what she saw on my face. I don\u2019t know what was on it.<\/p>\n
\u201cThis is insane,\u201d she said. \u201cThis is completely insane. Over a necklace?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cIt\u2019s not over a necklace,\u201d Matthew said.<\/p>\n
\u201cThen what is it over?\u201d<\/p>\n
He looked at her for a long time. Then he turned to the rest of us. To the table. To Anna and Greg and Tara and Dev and my mother and Thomas. And finally, to me.<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019ve been married to this woman for thirty-eight years,\u201d he said. \u201cAnd I owe Emily an apology. I owe all of you one. But her most.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cMatthew, don\u2019t,\u201d Susan whispered.<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019ve been saying \u2018That\u2019s just how she is\u2019 for four years.\u201d He shook his head slowly. \u201cIt\u2019s not just how she is. I know that better than anybody. I know exactly who she is. And I know why she\u2019s doing this. And I let it happen anyway, because it was easier than dealing with it.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cMatthew.\u201c<\/p>\n
\u201cSit down, Susan.\u201d<\/p>\n
She didn\u2019t sit down. She stood there with her hands gripping the back of her chair.<\/p>\n
Matthew looked at Thomas. \u201cYour mother and I tried for six years before we had you.\u201d<\/p>\n
Thomas blinked. \u201cWhat?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cSix years,\u201d Matthew said. \u201cBefore you. And three before Anna. She lost four babies. Four. The last one was at five months. A little boy. We named him David. He\u2019s buried in the Catholic cemetery on Hawthorne Street, in a plot I paid for with money I didn\u2019t have.\u201d<\/p>\n
The room was completely silent.<\/p>\n
Anna\u2019s hand was over her mouth. Thomas looked like someone had hit him in the chest.<\/p>\n
\u201cI didn\u2019t know,\u201d Thomas said. \u201cMom. You never\u2026 I didn\u2019t know.\u201d<\/p>\n
Susan wasn\u2019t looking at anyone. She was staring at the velvet box on the table.<\/p>\n
\u201cMy mother,\u201d Matthew went on, very quietly, \u201cwas not a kind woman. She thought Susan wasn\u2019t good enough for me from the day I brought her home. And when the babies didn\u2019t come, she had a lot to say about it. Every Sunday dinner. Every holiday. \u2018Some women just aren\u2019t built for it.\u2019 \u2018Maybe God knows something we don\u2019t.\u2019 \u2018At least you have more time to keep the house clean.\u2019 She said those things in front of me. In front of my brothers. In front of the priest, once.\u201d<\/p>\n
I felt something cold go down my spine.<\/p>\n
Some women just aren\u2019t built for it.<\/p>\n
I\u2019d heard those exact words before. In Susan\u2019s living room. The day we told them.<\/p>\n
\u201cAnd what did you do?\u201d I asked. My voice came out hoarse. It was the first thing I\u2019d said since I opened the box. \u201cWhen your mother said those things. What did you do?\u201d<\/p>\n
Matthew looked at me.<\/p>\n
\u201cI said, \u2018That\u2019s just how she is,’\u201d he said.<\/p>\n
Susan sat down.<\/p>\n
Not like a person deciding to sit. Like her legs just stopped holding her. She dropped into her chair, and she put both hands flat on the wine-soaked tablecloth, and she stared at them.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhen Susan was pregnant with Thomas,\u201d Matthew said, \u201cmy mother gave her a gift. At the baby shower. A little silver rattle. And she said, in front of everyone, \u2018Let\u2019s hope this one sticks.’\u201d<\/p>\n
Nobody breathed.<\/p>\n
\u201cSusan cried in the bathroom for an hour. I stood outside the door. I told her my mother didn\u2019t mean anything by it.\u201d He closed his eyes for a second. \u201cAnd Susan came out and looked at me and said, \u2018I will never forgive you for not standing up for me.\u2019 And I don\u2019t think she ever did.\u201d<\/p>\n
He looked across the table at his wife.<\/p>\n
\u201cI didn\u2019t stand up for you then,\u201d he said. \u201cAnd I\u2019ve regretted it every day of my life. And I\u2019m not going to make the same mistake with my son\u2019s wife. Not again. Not tonight.\u201d<\/p>\n
Susan looked up at him. Her eyes were wet. Her mascara was starting to run.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou think I don\u2019t know what I\u2019m doing?\u201d she said. Her voice was very small. Very different from the voice she\u2019d used all night. \u201cYou think I don\u2019t know?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI think you know exactly what you\u2019re doing,\u201d Matthew said. \u201cThat\u2019s what scares me.\u201d<\/p>\n
She stood up. She grabbed her purse. She didn\u2019t take the velvet box. She walked out of the back room without looking at anyone, pushing through the swinging door so hard that it banged against the wall.<\/p>\n
We heard her heels on the tile floor of the main restaurant. Fast. Then the front door. Then nothing.<\/p>\n
The velvet box sat in the middle of the table in a puddle of red wine.<\/p>\n
Matthew stood there for a long time. Then he walked back to his own chair, but he didn\u2019t sit down. He just put his hands on the back of it and leaned his weight there, like he was very tired.<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019m sorry,\u201d he said to me. \u201cI\u2019m so sorry, Emily. For tonight. For the last four years. For every time I said it didn\u2019t mean anything.\u201d<\/p>\n
I nodded. I couldn\u2019t talk.<\/p>\n
\u201cDad,\u201d Anna said quietly. \u201cShould I go after her?\u201d<\/p>\n
He shook his head. \u201cLet her go.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cShe\u2019s going to drive home like that?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cShe\u2019ll drive around,\u201d he said. \u201cThat\u2019s what she does. She drives for an hour and then she goes home and she goes to bed and she pretends it didn\u2019t happen. She\u2019s been doing it for thirty-eight years.\u201d He looked at his bare hand. At the pale strip of skin where the ring used to be. \u201cI\u2019ve been letting her.\u201d<\/p>\n
Thomas walked around the table. For a second, I thought he was going to say something angry. Instead, he put his arms around his father. Awkwardly, because the Keller men were not huggers. Matthew stood stiff for a moment. Then his shoulders dropped, and he put one big hand on the back of his son\u2019s head.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou never told me,\u201d Thomas said into his father\u2019s shoulder. \u201cAbout David. About any of it.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cShe didn\u2019t want anyone to know.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI had a brother.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYou had a brother,\u201d Matthew said. \u201cYes.\u201d<\/p>\n
My mother drove me home. Thomas stayed behind to settle the bill and make sure his father was okay.<\/p>\n
We didn\u2019t talk much in the car. My mom kept glancing over at me. At a red light, she reached over and tucked a piece of hair behind my ear, the way she used to when I was little.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou were very brave tonight,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n
\u201cI didn\u2019t do anything. I just sat there.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cThat\u2019s what I mean,\u201d she said. \u201cYou didn\u2019t give her anything. You just sat there and held on. I don\u2019t know how you did it.\u201d<\/p>\n
I looked down at my hands. They were still shaking.<\/p>\n
\u201cI wanted to throw it at her,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n
\u201cI know.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI wanted to throw it in her face and scream. I wanted to tell her she\u2019s a horrible person. I wanted to tell her I hope she chokes on it.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI know, honey.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI didn\u2019t,\u201d I said. \u201cI just sat there. Like I always do.\u201d<\/p>\n
My mom was quiet for a moment.<\/p>\n
\u201cThere\u2019s a difference,\u201d she said, \u201cbetween sitting there because you\u2019re afraid, and sitting there because you won\u2019t let someone push you over. Tonight, you weren\u2019t afraid. I could see it. You were just done.\u201d<\/p>\n
The light turned green. She drove on.<\/p>\n
When we got home, I went upstairs and took off my birthday dress and put on Thomas\u2019s old college sweatshirt and sat on our bed in the dark. Our dog, Biscuit, a fat old beagle with a gray face, jumped up and lay across my feet.<\/p>\n
I\u2019d left the velvet box on the table at Marco\u2019s. I never wanted to see it again.<\/p>\n
But I couldn\u2019t stop seeing it anyway. Every time I closed my eyes. Those little pink and blue bottles. Those tiny pacifiers. The neat, careful way they\u2019d been spaced along the chain.<\/p>\n
Took me forever to find those little bottles.<\/p>\n
I lay there and thought about a young woman crying in a bathroom at her own baby shower. About a silver rattle. About a little boy named David, buried on Hawthorne Street.<\/p>\n
And I hated that I felt sorry for her.<\/p>\n
I hated it so much.<\/p>\n
Thomas came home a little after eleven.<\/p>\n
He wasn\u2019t alone.<\/p>\n
I heard two sets of footsteps on the porch. The front door. Low voices. Then Thomas came upstairs and sat down on the edge of our bed.<\/p>\n
\u201cDad\u2019s downstairs,\u201d he said. \u201cHe doesn\u2019t want to go home. I told him he could stay in the guest room. Is that okay?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cOf course it\u2019s okay.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cHe brought the necklace,\u201d Thomas said. \u201cHe said he didn\u2019t want the restaurant to throw it away. I don\u2019t know why. I told him to put it in the trash, but he wouldn\u2019t.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cAnd the ring?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cHe left it in the box.\u201d<\/p>\n
I sat up. \u201cHe\u2019s really not going home?\u201d<\/p>\n
Thomas rubbed his face with both hands. \u201cI don\u2019t know, Em. I don\u2019t know what\u2019s happening. I found out tonight I had a brother who died before I was born. I found out my mom\u2019s been\u2026 I don\u2019t even know what to call it. Doing to you what was done to her. And my dad just sat me down in the parking lot and said, \u2018I should have left thirty years ago, and I didn\u2019t, because I was a coward.’\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cHe said that?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cHe said that.\u201d Thomas laughed, but there was nothing funny in it. \u201cMy dad. Who never says anything.\u201d<\/p>\n
I put my hand on his back. He was shaking.<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019m sorry your birthday got ruined,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n
\u201cMy birthday didn\u2019t get ruined.\u201d<\/p>\n
He turned and looked at me.<\/p>\n
\u201cThomas,\u201d I said. \u201cYour father stood up in a room full of people and took off his wedding ring for me. Nobody\u2019s ever done anything like that for me in my whole life. I\u2019m not saying it was a good night. But it wasn\u2019t ruined.\u201d<\/p>\n
He put his head down on my shoulder. We stayed like that for a long time.<\/p>\n
I couldn\u2019t sleep. Around one in the morning, I went downstairs for a glass of water.<\/p>\n
Matthew was sitting on the back porch in the dark.<\/p>\n
He was still in his dress shirt from dinner, the sleeves rolled up. He had a mug of coffee that had clearly gone cold a long time ago. Biscuit had followed me down, and she went straight to him and put her chin on his knee.<\/p>\n
\u201cCan\u2019t sleep?\u201d he said.<\/p>\n
\u201cNo.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cMe neither.\u201d<\/p>\n
I sat down in the other porch chair. The air was cool. Somewhere down the street, a dog was barking. The velvet box was sitting on the little table between us.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhy did you bring it?\u201d I asked.<\/p>\n
He looked at it. \u201cI don\u2019t know. I didn\u2019t want some busboy tossing my wedding ring in the garbage, I suppose.\u201d He was quiet for a moment. \u201cAnd I think I wanted you to decide what to do with it. The necklace, I mean. It\u2019s yours. She gave it to you. You should be the one who gets rid of it.\u201d<\/p>\n
I didn\u2019t touch the box.<\/p>\n
\u201cCan I ask you something?\u201d I said.<\/p>\n
\u201cAnything.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cWhy tonight? You\u2019ve watched her do this for four years. You saw what happened at Christmas. You saw Easter. What was different?\u201d<\/p>\n
He took a long time to answer.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhen she held up that little bottle,\u201d he said finally, \u201cshe had her fingers exactly the way my mother used to hold her teacup. Pinky out. And she tilted her head the same way. And I sat there and I thought, she\u2019s become her. She\u2019s become the woman she hated most in the world. And I let it happen. Because every time she said something cruel, I said, \u2018That\u2019s just how she is,\u2019 the same way I used to say it about my mother.\u201d He looked out at the dark yard. \u201cAnd I thought about Susan, twenty-six years old, crying in that bathroom. And I thought, somebody should have stood up for her. And nobody did. So now there\u2019s no one to stand up for you, either, except Thomas. And he shouldn\u2019t have to do it alone.\u201d<\/p>\n
I wiped my eyes.<\/p>\n
\u201cShe knew,\u201d he said. \u201cWhen she had that necklace made. Some part of her knew exactly how it would feel. Because somebody did it to her first. That\u2019s what I can\u2019t forgive. Not that she\u2019s hurting. God knows she\u2019s been hurting for forty years. But that she knew. And she did it anyway.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cAre you going to leave her?\u201d I asked.<\/p>\n
He turned his mug around in his hands.<\/p>\n
\u201cI don\u2019t know,\u201d he said. \u201cI\u2019ve never not been married to her. I don\u2019t know how to be anything else.\u201d He looked at the box. \u201cBut I know I can\u2019t go back to being the man who says \u2018That\u2019s just how she is.\u2019 I can\u2019t be him anymore. And if that\u2019s the only man she wants, then maybe I have to go.\u201d<\/p>\n
For the next week, Matthew slept in our guest room.<\/p>\n
Susan called him eleven times the first day. He didn\u2019t answer. On the second day, she called Thomas. Thomas answered once, listened for about thirty seconds, and then said, \u201cMom, I\u2019m not doing this over the phone,\u201d and hung up.<\/p>\n
On the third day, she called Anna, and Anna came over to our house, furious.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou need to go home, Dad,\u201d she said, standing in our kitchen with Leo on her hip. \u201cThis is ridiculous. You\u2019re sixty-four years old. You\u2019re sleeping in a guest room like some teenager who ran away.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019m not going home yet, Anna.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cShe\u2019s a mess. She hasn\u2019t gotten out of bed. She\u2019s not eating. She keeps crying and saying you humiliated her in front of everyone.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI did humiliate her,\u201d Matthew said. \u201cIn front of everyone. The way she\u2019s been humiliating Emily in front of everyone for four years.\u201d<\/p>\n
Anna\u2019s face tightened. She looked at me. \u201cI know what she did was awful, Em. I know. I\u2019m not defending it. But she\u2019s still my mother.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI know,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n
\u201cAnd you\u2019re just going to let him stay here? And not go home to her?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cAnna.\u201d Thomas stepped between us. \u201cDon\u2019t put this on Emily. Dad\u2019s a grown man. He decides where he sleeps.\u201d<\/p>\n
Leo started fussing. Anna bounced him on her hip. She looked tired. She looked like she hadn\u2019t slept either.<\/p>\n
\u201cDid you know?\u201d I asked her. \u201cAbout David?\u201d<\/p>\n
She shook her head. \u201cNo. I didn\u2019t know about any of it. I didn\u2019t know there were other babies.\u201d Her voice cracked. \u201cI had a whole brother, and nobody ever told me.\u201d<\/p>\n
Leo reached out toward me with one fat little hand. He was fifteen months old. He had Thomas\u2019s nose. He grabbed a piece of my hair and pulled, and I let him, and I made a funny face, and he laughed.<\/p>\n
Anna watched us for a long moment.<\/p>\n
\u201cShe was different with Leo,\u201d she said quietly. \u201cWhen I was pregnant. She was so worried. She called me every single day. She made me promise to tell her if anything felt wrong. I thought she was just being overbearing.\u201d She looked at her son. \u201cNow I think she was terrified.\u201d<\/p>\n
That weekend, Thomas and I had a conversation we\u2019d been avoiding for over a year.<\/p>\n
We were sitting on the living room floor, surrounded by papers. Bills, mostly. And under them, a thick folder we\u2019d both been pretending didn\u2019t exist. Information from an agency. Adoption. Foster care. Surrogacy options we couldn\u2019t afford.<\/p>\n
\u201cI keep thinking about the necklace,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n
\u201cMe too.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cNot because it hurt. I mean, it did. But because of what it said. Since you\u2019ll never need the real ones.\u201d I pulled at a loose thread on the rug. \u201cLike that\u2019s the end of the story. Like if I can\u2019t carry a baby, then I don\u2019t get to be a mother. Period. And I think, part of me believed her. Part of me has been believing that for a year.\u201d<\/p>\n
Thomas didn\u2019t say anything. He just waited.<\/p>\n
\u201cI don\u2019t want to believe it anymore,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n
He reached over and pulled the folder out from under the bills. He set it between us.<\/p>\n
\u201cWe don\u2019t have to decide anything today,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n
\u201cI know.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cWe don\u2019t have to decide anything this year.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI know.\u201d I opened the folder. On top was a pamphlet with a picture of a smiling family on it. Two dads and a little girl with pigtails. \u201cBut I want to start reading it. Together. Is that okay?\u201d<\/p>\n
He smiled. It was the first real smile I\u2019d seen on his face since my birthday.<\/p>\n
\u201cYeah,\u201d he said. \u201cThat\u2019s okay.\u201d<\/p>\n
Susan came to our house on a Tuesday afternoon, twelve days after my birthday.<\/p>\n
I was home alone. Thomas was at work. Matthew had gone to look at a small apartment near the lumber yard where he still worked two days a week, even though he was supposed to be retired. I was in the kitchen, making soup, when the doorbell rang.<\/p>\n
I opened the door, and there she was.<\/p>\n
She looked terrible. I had never seen Susan look terrible. She always had her hair done and her makeup on, even to go to the grocery store. Now she was wearing an old cardigan and no lipstick, and her hair was flat, and there were dark circles under her eyes.<\/p>\n
She was holding the velvet box.<\/p>\n
Matthew must have brought it back to her. Or maybe she\u2019d come by to get it while I was out. I didn\u2019t know. I didn\u2019t ask.<\/p>\n
\u201cIs he here?\u201d she asked.<\/p>\n
\u201cNo.\u201d<\/p>\n
She nodded. She looked relieved. And then scared.<\/p>\n
\u201cCan I come in?\u201d she said. \u201cI won\u2019t stay long. I just\u2026 I need to say something. To you. Not to him. To you.\u201d<\/p>\n
Every part of me wanted to shut the door.<\/p>\n
But I thought about a young woman in a bathroom. I thought about a little boy named David. And I stepped aside.<\/p>\n
She sat at my kitchen table. I didn\u2019t offer her coffee. I stood by the stove with my arms crossed.<\/p>\n
She put the velvet box on the table in front of her. She didn\u2019t open it.<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019m not good at this,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n
\u201cAt what?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cApologizing.\u201d She laughed, a small, broken sound. \u201cMatthew would tell you I\u2019ve never done it once in thirty-eight years. He\u2019d be right.\u201d<\/p>\n
I waited.<\/p>\n
She looked down at her hands. \u201cI don\u2019t know how to start.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cWhy did you do it?\u201d I asked.<\/p>\n
She flinched. Then she looked up at me. Her eyes were red.<\/p>\n
\u201cBecause you have him,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n
I didn\u2019t understand. \u201cWhat?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cThomas. You have Thomas.\u201d Her voice was shaking. \u201cEvery time I said something, he stood up. Every single time. At Easter. At Christmas. At that stupid barbecue. He stood up and said, \u2018Mom, stop.\u2019 He never let one single thing slide. And I would look at you, sitting there, with him right beside you, and I would think, Nobody ever did that for me.\u201c<\/p>\n
I stared at her.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhen I was losing babies,\u201d she said, \u201cI had nobody. Matthew\u2019s mother said horrible things to me every week. And Matthew just sat there. And my own mother told me I should pray more. And my friends stopped calling because they didn\u2019t know what to say. I lost David at five months, and three days later, I was back at Sunday dinner, passing the potatoes to a woman who told me maybe God knew something about me that I didn\u2019t.\u201d She wiped her face with her sleeve. \u201cAnd then you came along. And you were going through the same thing. And you had this man who would walk through fire for you. And I was so\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n
She couldn\u2019t finish.<\/p>\n
\u201cJealous,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n
\u201cJealous,\u201d she said. \u201cOf a woman who couldn\u2019t have babies. What kind of person does that make me?\u201d<\/p>\n
I didn\u2019t answer.<\/p>\n
\u201cI told myself it was just jokes,\u201d she said. \u201cI told myself you were too sensitive. I told myself you had it easier than I did, so you could take it. And every time Thomas stood up for you, I got angrier. Because I wanted somebody to stand up for me. Forty years ago. And nobody did. And it was too late.\u201d She pressed her hands against her eyes. \u201cAnd then I was in that craft store, looking at baby shower favors for Leo\u2019s birthday party, and I saw those little plastic bottles. And I thought of the silver rattle. And something in me just\u2026 I bought them. I went home and I made that necklace myself, at my kitchen table. It took three nights. And the whole time, I knew. I knew exactly what it would do to you. I knew because it was done to me.\u201d<\/p>\n
She opened her eyes and looked at me.<\/p>\n
\u201cAnd I did it anyway,\u201d she said. \u201cMatthew\u2019s right. That\u2019s the part I can\u2019t take back.\u201d<\/p>\n
The soup on the stove was starting to boil over. I turned it off. My hands were shaking. I held on to the edge of the counter.<\/p>\n
\u201cDo you know what the worst part was?\u201d I said. \u201cNot the necklace. Not even what you said at the dinner. It was that I started believing you.\u201d<\/p>\n
She looked up.<\/p>\n
\u201cSome women just aren\u2019t built for it. I heard that in my head every day for a year. When I was trying to fall asleep. When I saw a pregnant woman at the grocery store. When I went to the bathroom at work and saw the stall where I lost the baby. I heard it in your voice.\u201d My voice cracked. \u201cI\u2019m thirty-five years old, and I\u2019ve been walking around feeling like a broken machine. Like something that didn\u2019t come out right at the factory. And you made that worse. Every time. On purpose.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI know,\u201d she whispered.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou can\u2019t just come here and tell me you had it hard too, and expect that to fix it.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI don\u2019t expect anything to fix it,\u201d she said. \u201cI don\u2019t. I just\u2026 I didn\u2019t want you to spend another day thinking it was about you. It was never about you. It was about me. It was about her. It was about a bathroom forty years ago.\u201d She put her hand flat on the velvet box. \u201cI\u2019m not asking you to forgive me. I don\u2019t think I would, if I were you.\u201d<\/p>\n
We looked at each other across my kitchen. Two women who\u2019d lost babies. Who\u2019d sat in bathrooms and counted floor tiles. Who\u2019d been told we weren\u2019t built right.<\/p>\n
The only difference between us was who\u2019d stood beside us when it happened.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat do you want, Susan?\u201d I asked finally.<\/p>\n
She opened the velvet box.<\/p>\n
The necklace was there. And on top of it, Matthew\u2019s wedding ring.<\/p>\n
She took the ring out first. She held it in her palm for a moment. Then she put it in her cardigan pocket.<\/p>\n
Then she reached into her purse and took out a small pair of scissors. The kind people keep in sewing kits.<\/p>\n
She picked up the necklace, and she started cutting.<\/p>\n
One charm at a time. She cut through each tiny gold ring and let the pieces fall onto my kitchen table. A pink bottle. A blue pacifier. A yellow one. Snip. Snip. Snip. Her hands were shaking. It took her a long time. I didn\u2019t help her. I just watched.<\/p>\n
When she was finished, there was a little pile of plastic on the table, and an empty gold chain.<\/p>\n
She pushed the pile toward me.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou decide what to do with them,\u201d she said. \u201cI don\u2019t get to decide anything anymore.\u201d<\/p>\n
I gathered them up in my hand. They weighed almost nothing. Fourteen bottles. Twelve pacifiers. I\u2019d never counted before.<\/p>\n
I walked over to the trash can under the sink. I opened it. I stood there for a moment with my hand over it.<\/p>\n
Then I stopped.<\/p>\n
I closed my hand again. I don\u2019t know why. I put them in my pocket instead.<\/p>\n
Susan watched me. She didn\u2019t ask.<\/p>\n
\u201cThere\u2019s a cemetery on Hawthorne Street,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n
She went very still.<\/p>\n
\u201cDoes anyone go there?\u201d I asked. \u201cTo see David?\u201d<\/p>\n
She shook her head slowly. \u201cMatthew used to. I never could. It\u2019s been\u2026 God, I don\u2019t know. Twenty years since I went. Maybe more.\u201d<\/p>\n
I thought about it for a long moment.<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019d go with you,\u201d I said. \u201cIf you wanted.\u201d<\/p>\n
Her face crumpled. She put both hands over her mouth. She made a sound I recognized. The same sound I\u2019d made in that parking garage, with my face against Thomas\u2019s jacket.<\/p>\n
I didn\u2019t hug her. I wasn\u2019t ready for that. But I pulled out a chair and sat down across from her, and I put a box of tissues on the table between us, and I stayed there until she was done.<\/p>\n
We went on a Saturday in November. Just the two of us. Thomas offered to come. Matthew offered to drive. I told them both no.<\/p>\n
The cemetery on Hawthorne Street was small and old, with an iron gate and a lot of crooked stones. Susan walked straight to it without looking at a map. She knew exactly where it was. She\u2019d always known.<\/p>\n
The stone was very small. It was lying flat in the grass, and it was half covered with dead leaves. Susan knelt down in her good slacks and brushed the leaves off with her bare hands.<\/p>\n
David Matthew Keller. Our son. Forever held.<\/p>\n
There was only one date.<\/p>\n
Susan stayed on her knees for a long time. She didn\u2019t cry. She just touched the letters, one by one, with her fingertip, the way Matthew had touched the charms on the necklace at Marco\u2019s.<\/p>\n
\u201cI was so angry at him,\u201d she said quietly. \u201cFor dying. Isn\u2019t that stupid? He was five months along. He didn\u2019t do anything. But I was so angry at him, and then I was so angry at myself for being angry. And then I just stopped coming. Because it was easier to be angry at everyone else.\u201d<\/p>\n
I knelt down next to her. The grass was cold and damp.<\/p>\n
I took the little plastic bottles and pacifiers out of my coat pocket.<\/p>\n
Susan looked at them. Then at me.<\/p>\n
\u201cI don\u2019t want to throw them away,\u201d I said. \u201cI thought about it. But throwing them away feels like saying they\u2019re garbage. Like what they stood for was garbage. And it\u2019s not. Wanting a baby isn\u2019t garbage. Losing one isn\u2019t garbage.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cThen what do you want to do with them?\u201d<\/p>\n
I didn\u2019t answer right away. I dug a little hole in the dirt beside David\u2019s stone with my fingers. It was easy. The ground was soft from the rain.<\/p>\n
I put the charms in the hole. All of them. The pink and the blue and the yellow. And I covered them with dirt and pressed it flat with my palm.<\/p>\n
\u201cThere,\u201d I said. \u201cThey can stay with somebody who was wanted.\u201d<\/p>\n
Susan made a sound. She put her hand on top of mine, on top of the dirt. Her hand was cold and thin. Neither of us moved for a long time.<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019m sorry,\u201d she said. \u201cI\u2019m so sorry, Emily.\u201d<\/p>\n
It was the first time she\u2019d ever called me by my name without it sounding like an accusation.<\/p>\n
\u201cI know,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n
I didn\u2019t say I forgave her. I didn\u2019t know yet if I did. But I didn\u2019t take my hand away.<\/p>\n
Matthew moved back home in January.<\/p>\n
It wasn\u2019t simple. It wasn\u2019t a movie. He didn\u2019t show up at the door with flowers. Susan didn\u2019t run into his arms. Thomas told me later that his father had set rules. Real ones. They were going to see a counselor. Every week. No skipping. And if she ever said anything like that to me again, to anyone again, he was gone for good. No second chances.<\/p>\n
\u201cAnd she agreed?\u201d I asked.<\/p>\n
\u201cShe agreed,\u201d Thomas said. \u201cDad said she didn\u2019t even argue. She just said, \u2018That\u2019s fair.’\u201d<\/p>\n
He put the ring back on the first day they went to counseling. Anna told me that. She said he\u2019d come out of the office and sat in the car and twisted it back on over his swollen knuckle, and it had taken him almost five minutes, and Susan had sat in the passenger seat and watched him do it without saying a word.<\/p>\n
\u201cMom cried the whole way home,\u201d Anna said. \u201cDad didn\u2019t. He just held her hand at every red light.\u201d<\/p>\n
In March, Susan called me.<\/p>\n
Not Thomas. Me.<\/p>\n
\u201cI don\u2019t want to bother you,\u201d she said. Her voice was careful, the way it had been since November. Like she was walking on ice. \u201cI just wanted to ask. How are things going? With the agency. Thomas mentioned you\u2019d started classes.\u201d<\/p>\n
We had. Thomas and I had been going to foster care certification classes every Thursday night for six weeks. We sat in a church basement with eleven other couples and one single woman who was a retired nurse, learning about trauma and attachment and how to fill out forty different forms.<\/p>\n
\u201cIt\u2019s going okay,\u201d I said. \u201cIt\u2019s a lot. But it\u2019s good.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cGood,\u201d she said. \u201cThat\u2019s good.\u201d She was quiet for a moment. \u201cI wanted to ask. And you can say no. I\u2019d understand if you said no. But if you ever need anyone. For babysitting, or emergencies, or rides to appointments. Or just an extra pair of hands. I\u2019d like to be that. If you\u2019d let me.\u201d<\/p>\n
I sat on the edge of my bed with the phone against my ear.<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019d have to think about it,\u201d I said honestly.<\/p>\n
\u201cOf course.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019m not saying no.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI know.\u201d She cleared her throat. \u201cThank you, Emily. For thinking about it.\u201d<\/p>\n
Our first placement came in July.<\/p>\n
Her name was Maya. She was four years old. She came to us with one plastic grocery bag of clothes, a stuffed rabbit missing an ear, and a caseworker who looked like she hadn\u2019t slept in a week.<\/p>\n
Maya didn\u2019t talk for the first three days. She sat on the couch with the rabbit in her lap and watched us with big, careful eyes. She flinched when Thomas walked into a room too fast. She hid food in her pillowcase. The first night, she wet the bed and then tried to hide the sheets under the bathroom sink, and when I found them, she started shaking.<\/p>\n
I didn\u2019t say anything about the sheets. I just knelt down and said, \u201cHey. Want to help me put these in the washing machine? It makes a really funny sound.\u201d<\/p>\n
She stared at me. Then she nodded.<\/p>\n
The washing machine did make a funny sound. It thumped and groaned like it was angry. Maya stood beside it with her hand pressed against the front, feeling it shake. On the fourth day, she laughed at it.<\/p>\n
It was the first sound I\u2019d heard her make.<\/p>\n
On the fifth day, she climbed into my lap while I was reading on the couch and fell asleep there with the rabbit squashed between us. I didn\u2019t move for two hours. My leg went numb. I didn\u2019t care.<\/p>\n
Thomas found us like that when he came home from work. He stood in the doorway for a long time.<\/p>\n
\u201cEm,\u201d he whispered.<\/p>\n
\u201cI know,\u201d I whispered back. \u201cI know.\u201d<\/p>\n
Susan met Maya two weeks later.<\/p>\n
I\u2019d thought about it for a long time. I talked to Thomas. I talked to our caseworker. I talked to Matthew, who said, \u201cIt\u2019s your call, kiddo. Whatever you decide, I\u2019ll back it.\u201d And finally, I decided yes.<\/p>\n
Susan came over on a Sunday afternoon. She didn\u2019t bring a big gift. She\u2019d asked me first what was okay, and I\u2019d said nothing fancy. Nothing that would overwhelm her.<\/p>\n
She brought a box of sidewalk chalk.<\/p>\n
She sat down on our front walk in her good slacks, the way she\u2019d sat in the grass on Hawthorne Street, and she started drawing. Flowers first. Then a sun. Then a very bad dog.<\/p>\n
Maya watched from the porch for a long time, holding my hand.<\/p>\n
\u201cThat\u2019s Grandma Susan,\u201d I told her. \u201cShe\u2019s Thomas\u2019s mom.\u201d<\/p>\n
Maya looked up at me. \u201cIs she nice?\u201d<\/p>\n
I thought about it. I thought about the velvet box. The red wine on the tablecloth. The scissors. The little hole in the dirt beside a stone with only one date on it.<\/p>\n
\u201cShe\u2019s trying really hard to be,\u201d I said. \u201cThat\u2019s the best any of us can do.\u201d<\/p>\n
Maya thought about that. Then she let go of my hand and walked down the steps. She stood beside Susan and looked at the very bad dog.<\/p>\n
\u201cThat doesn\u2019t look like a dog,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n
Susan looked up at her. \u201cNo? What does it look like?\u201d<\/p>\n
Maya squinted. \u201cA potato.\u201d<\/p>\n
Susan laughed. A real laugh. Surprised and loud. And then she held out the box of chalk.<\/p>\n
\u201cShow me how you\u2019d draw a dog, then,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n
Maya took a piece of blue chalk and knelt down beside her.<\/p>\n
I stood on the porch and watched them. Matthew came up beside me. He\u2019d driven Susan over and had been waiting in the car, giving her space. He put his big hand on my shoulder.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou didn\u2019t have to do this,\u201d he said quietly.<\/p>\n
\u201cI know.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cShe doesn\u2019t deserve it.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cMaybe not,\u201d I said. \u201cBut Maya deserves a grandma who draws dogs with her. And I think Susan\u2019s the kind of person who needs to be trusted with something before she can learn how to be trustworthy.\u201d I shrugged. \u201cOr maybe I\u2019m just an idiot.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYou\u2019re not an idiot,\u201d Matthew said. \u201cYou\u2019re the bravest person in this family.\u201d<\/p>\n
I didn\u2019t say anything. I just leaned against him a little, and he let me.<\/p>\n
On my thirty-sixth birthday, we didn\u2019t go to Marco\u2019s.<\/p>\n
We had dinner in our backyard. Tara and Dev. My mom, who drove up with a cake she\u2019d made herself, lopsided and covered in too much frosting. Anna and Greg and Leo, who was two and a half now and running everywhere. Matthew, who grilled burgers and burned them and insisted they were \u201csupposed to be like that.\u201d Susan, who sat at the end of the picnic table and didn\u2019t say anything unkind the entire night.<\/p>\n
And Maya. Five years old now. Still with us. Still with the one-eared rabbit, which went everywhere. She\u2019d drawn me a birthday card that afternoon. It was a picture of me, Thomas, Maya, and Biscuit, all standing in front of our house. I had purple hair. Thomas had no neck. Biscuit was bigger than the house.<\/p>\n
\u201cIt\u2019s perfect,\u201d I told her, and I meant it.<\/p>\n
After the cake, Susan came over to me. She was holding a small box. Not velvet. Just plain cardboard, tied with a piece of string.<\/p>\n
The whole table got quiet. I saw Thomas stiffen. I saw Matthew put his fork down. I saw Anna glance nervously at her mother.<\/p>\n
Susan saw it too. Her face flushed.<\/p>\n
\u201cIt\u2019s all right,\u201d she said quietly. \u201cI understand. I\u2019d be looking at me that way too.\u201d<\/p>\n
She held the box out to me.<\/p>\n
I untied the string. I opened it.<\/p>\n
Inside was a small silver rattle. Old. Tarnished at the edges. With a tiny dent on one side.<\/p>\n
I looked up at her.<\/p>\n
\u201cIt\u2019s the one,\u201d she said. \u201cFrom my mother-in-law. From the baby shower. I kept it all these years. I don\u2019t even know why. I hated it. I kept it in the bottom of my jewelry box for thirty-six years, and every time I saw it, I felt sick.\u201d She took a breath. \u201cI don\u2019t want it to mean that anymore. I thought maybe Maya could have it. And it could mean something else. It could mean a child who\u2019s wanted. Just wanted. By people who chose her.\u201d<\/p>\n
I held the rattle in my hand. It was cold and heavy.<\/p>\n
Maya came up beside me. She looked at it curiously. \u201cWhat\u2019s that?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cIt\u2019s a rattle,\u201d I said. \u201cFor babies.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019m not a baby.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI know. But it\u2019s very old. Grandma Susan kept it for a long time. She wanted you to have it.\u201d<\/p>\n
Maya took it. She shook it. It made a soft, tinny sound. She shook it again, and grinned.<\/p>\n
\u201cIt sounds like the washing machine,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n
Everyone laughed. Even Susan. Especially Susan.<\/p>\n
Maya ran off to show Leo. The table started talking again. Dev started telling a story. Matthew went back to his burned burgers.<\/p>\n
Susan stood next to me for a moment longer.<\/p>\n
\u201cThank you,\u201d she said. \u201cFor letting me give her that.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cThank you,\u201d I said. \u201cFor giving it.\u201d<\/p>\n
She hesitated. Then, very carefully, like she was afraid I\u2019d pull away, she put her hand on my arm.<\/p>\n
I didn\u2019t pull away.<\/p>\n
I still think about that night at Marco\u2019s sometimes.<\/p>\n
I think about the velvet box, and the little pink and blue bottles, and Susan\u2019s fingers holding one up for everyone to see. I think about the way the room went silent. About Thomas\u2019s chair scraping back. About Matthew twisting that ring off over his swollen knuckle.<\/p>\n
For a long time, I thought the story was about what Susan did to me. About the cruelty. About how some people are just like that.<\/p>\n
But now I think it\u2019s about something else.<\/p>\n
I think it\u2019s about what happens when nobody stands up. How the hurt doesn\u2019t disappear. It just waits. It sits in the bottom of a jewelry box for thirty-six years, getting heavier. And then one day, someone opens that box and hands the hurt to someone new.<\/p>\n
Susan didn\u2019t become cruel because she was born that way. She became cruel because she was hurt, and everyone around her said, That\u2019s just how she is. And then she said it too, about herself. For forty years.<\/p>\n
It only stopped when one person decided not to say it anymore.<\/p>\n
Matthew told me once, on the back porch, that he\u2019d waited his whole life to be brave, and it turned out bravery was just a man taking off a ring at a dinner table. That\u2019s all it was. One small thing, at the right moment, that nobody expected.<\/p>\n
I don\u2019t know if I\u2019ll ever carry a baby. Dr. Okafor still says almost. She still won\u2019t say completely.<\/p>\n
Ezoic
\nBut I have a five-year-old who draws me with purple hair. I have a husband who stood up every single time. I have a father-in-law who finally stood up too. And I have a mother-in-law who drove to a cemetery with me on a cold Saturday and knelt in the dirt beside a little stone with only one date.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s not the family I pictured when I was painting that ugly Sea Glass wall with Thomas, back when we were young and thought everything would be easy.<\/p>\n
But it\u2019s mine.<\/p>\n
Last week, Maya asked me why the silver rattle had a dent in it.<\/p>\n
I thought about how to answer. About Susan crying in a bathroom, forty years ago. About a little boy named David. About a necklace, and a pair of scissors, and a handful of plastic charms buried in the soft November ground.<\/p>\n
\u201cBecause it\u2019s old,\u201d I said. \u201cAnd old things get dented sometimes.\u201d<\/p>\n
She turned it over in her small hands.<\/p>\n
\u201cIs it broken?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cNo,\u201d I said. \u201cIt still works. Shake it.\u201d<\/p>\n
She shook it. It made its soft, tinny sound.<\/p>\n
\u201cSee?\u201d I said. \u201cDented things still work. Sometimes they work better. Because they know what it\u2019s like.\u201d<\/p>\n
Ezoic
\nShe looked at me for a long moment, the way she did when she was deciding whether to believe something.<\/p>\n
Then she climbed into my lap with the rabbit and the rattle, and I held her, and neither of us said anything for a long time.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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